… the sissification fetish: the desire for men to be feminized and then degraded. The whole point of this kink is for men to be treated how women are, to be degraded how they are degraded in porn and in real life.

Obviously that hits home with me. I am a woman. I experience this daily.

So to have a man tell me he wants to be sissified, is difficult because as soon as we are done he gets to take off the costume. He gets to be a man again. His privilege is so prevalent that he can wear my gender to get him off and then be able to take it off whenever he wants. While I remain a woman.

As a Feminist it’s important for me to be constantly critiquing my kinks and the kink community. Which can be difficult because a lot of fetishes challenge my very staunch feelings on these issues. It’s also difficult because a lot of people in the kink community don’t want to critique the problems, because it causes them to have to think twice about themselves.


cat people: dogs are cool too
dog people: cats don’t feel love did you know a cat once MURDERED my MOTHER







I think the reason I like bridges so much is because I’m so good at burning them


the rise and fall


Fun video Rick Darge and I shot with Lola and Gerard this week. Will Lola make it??


people who make you feel better about yourself when you’re sad are so important 

Did you know?




White American males constitute only 33% of the population. Yet, they occupy approximately:

  • 80% of tenured positions in higher education
  • 80% of the House of Representatives
  • 80-85% of the U.S. Senate
  • 92%of Forbes 400 executive CEO-level positions
  • 90% of athletic team owners
  • 97.7% of U.S. presidents

Good thing we solved sexism and racism u guise

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Kanye West going crazy to A-ha’s “Take On Me”

I just watched this 15 times

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Kristen Stewart has had a busy week


Kristen Stewart has had a busy week

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